A little bit of This "n" That

Eeny Meeny Miney Mo.


Last week was full on.    Like really full on.

I’m surprised my brain has had the capacity to keep up with what happened but  it did.

The week ended up presenting itself with some unusual surprises which all ended up being rather good. And yes, they were all on the manfront.

The craziness of  Saturday Night at Devilles for Halloween ended up with me basically talking the ear off one very attractive pilot who happened to be at the Halloween Party just by accident. My first line of conversation to him and his friend was “So are you two really pilots or is that your costume for tonite?” Of which the response I received was “No. We actually are and not long flew in all we wanted was to go out and told the taxi driver to take us somewhere where we were definitely going to have a good night”.

The conversation flowed from there along with the beers and champagne consumption which ended up with me having a brilliant conversation with an extremely well-mannered and lovely guy.

This lovely guy now has my number and we have been texting each other for the best part of the last week and we will be having dinner later on this week of which im rather excited about. Oh and I forgot to say , He’s English. But hey, you can’t tarnish them all with the same brush.

BUT.

There is something else.

Before I go on I am not a hussy and I look at it as keeping my options open.

On the Friday night, BEFORE I met the dashing pilot, I was having a very innocent conversation with a guy I went to High School with on Facebook. Yes I know Facebook. But hey these things happen. We approached the subject of what was I doing for my 30th, Did I have any plans or was i just going to ignore it and pretend it wasnt happening.

I told him that I really didn’t have a clue and would work it all out in due course. This was then proceeded by a question of ” Well, I would actually like to take you out for Dinner for your Birthday if you havent got any Plans”.

This kind of threw me and I had to think a little bit about it. You see I havent even seen Mr. High School since I was 17, and to be honest I don’t really think I even associated with him that much back in the day either. What do you say? “Oh Yeah, Sure I’ll forget about all my family and friends and leave them to come have dinner with you” ( No, I’m not that much of a bitch that I said that).

In actual fact my reply was ” Thanks for the thought that’s really lovely and I will let you know” which I then added to the end of it “FYI. If you really want to take me out to dinner you know you don’t have to use my Birthday as an excuse”.

He then replied that he was rather embarrassed and just thought that it was an easy way to break the ice. I found this rather sweet and we did arrange to go out on Saturday night just gone for dinner but he had to go to Sydney for work at short notice, but I did get inundated with text messages from him telling me how sorry he was and how disappointed he was in not being able to take me out. He also added that he first stop back  from the airport would be to see me if it was ok with me.

Of course its alright with me.

Like I said. I’m keeping my options open. Just because you can go out for dinner or see people socially for a date does not mean you are sleeping with them or going to be sleeping with them (This I had to explain to my mother at great length, and trust me she is a hard woman to convince especially when I told her the Pilot was English ,  she practically hit the roof. )

So now we have another week ahead of us and hopefully I shall be seeing both of these men – Who are actually very different to each other.

First dates always make me feel like I’m about to spew forth butterflies

I’ll keep you posted as to what happens.

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Comments on: "Eeny Meeny Miney Mo." (1)

  1. Nice work lady!!! 😀 And good on you for keeping your options open!

    Too often people think “oh no, I’ve agreed to dinner with this person so I can’t do xyz” But what happens if it doesn’t go well? We could decline the man of our dreams because it might look bad. Dating does not mean we’re in a relationship….. people forget that.

    Go YOU!!! xxx

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